Hi Vijay ,

Great to see you here. And thanx indeed for the wishes and for the reco too.
Yeah, life is like that...and it keeps moving.......
Thnx a bunch for dropping by...and do keep coming plz

Hi,

I also join you in wishing her soul all the peace she deserve. Life is like that.

All the best
Vijay

Hi Sampath,   

Welcome back. Its so good to see you back into circulation !

Thanx so much for the lovely words and for the reco. 

This is one my favourite verses ! Keep coming   :-)

daer mrs muffet,
with a mom like that..
 i am sure that you would be 
a great mom...
what a lovely passge you have selected ....

Hi Ether,

My account is behaving funny for the past one week. Am not getting the alerts also. 

 Just now I saw your beautiful comment. Am sorry I got delayed in replying...
Yes, mothers are special always....I lost her in 2004. It was hard for me, and more so since she was fighting with cancer. Terrible time we had :(((

Yep..they were our cheerleaders !

Mrs Muffet
Really loved your last statement "SHE WAS MY BIGGEST CHEERLEADER !!!!!!! "
Here we have something common - I too lost my mom in 2005 - the cheerleader too
Thanks for sharing with us-
     

Hi Komlet,  Thanx for the lovely words...
Yes, mother-daughter reletionship is defintely the best ....my daughter is married and stays in a different city ..... ....I miss her :( 
U are right , they grow up and tend to be like mothers....That's how I turned out to be.......and obviously .......I  expect her also to be like me  !!!! 

Thnx a bunch hey ...for coming and plz do keep coming :)))

Hi Bigmojo,

Its nice that you could open up your heart and pour out your thoughts here and I hope this made things a little peaceful and serene at your end. Its truely sad when your relationship gets strained with your parents due to lack of emotional support ....Its unfortunate that the parents donot realise that this negligence ultimately makes the child  lonely for his entire life.......,it makes him embarrassed and awkward when others talk about their pleasantries on this issue.... Honestly, its a difficult situation to be in and live  with this burden of an unhappy childhood... Truely sad mojo !
     But, all that I can tell you here is....as an adult , is there any need to talk or think about the sad past ?? Its who you are now.....you have plenty of time now to include the missing aspects of your life .....forget the bad part of your life and "customize" your life as you want it to be ......!!!!!!! 
Your comment is so articulate :)     ( thou' a lil sad  ).
I 'd written a story ' Hell broke loose " sometime back on a similar line. Check it out. Might just feel refreshd !
Am going to your page now . Thanx so much for coming and sharing . Hope to see you more often here :))

My dear Mrs. Muffet, I was here earlier but left without a comment. I didn't know what to say. I couldn't say I understand because I don't. I really do not relate when people speak in overwhelming tones about the wonderful parents they have. I grew up in their absence. Not physical. But emotional, intellectual and spiritual. Which is like being parented in absentia. :-)) While I am old enough to accept them with all their frailities today, for a long while it did hurt. To be robbed off one of the most powerful and unifying relationships in the world anyone can have. But such is life, isn't it?

Nowadays, I read about all this tragic things in the newspapers. I read about a father who was sexually abusing two of his teenage daughters ever since their mother died years back. It all became public when the younger one became pregnant with his child and made an unsuccessful suicide attempt. The elder one broke her silence.

I read about a mother who buried her new born alive, and ran away with her lover. Another that willingly forced her daughter to copulate with her father who she no longer could satisfy him.

There is so much insanity and cruelness in the world. Mothers and fathers, especially the kind that I read of when people like you write tributes on Fathers and Mothers day, make me want to believe that a different world exists. One that I wasn't born in, and one that I haven't seen as yet.

But, all the same, do not think I have nothing to say on Mother's Day. You may please come and visit my post, 'Mama, you're the queen of my heart.'

I guess we all have something to say even when silence begs to be maintained. :-)

your post shows how intense your relation was with mother - in fact mother-daughter relation  has a very important impact on the personna of  growing daughter..........finally daughters are going to be like their mothers...........thanks for sharing your views here.